I write about life and love as a woman who loves philosophy, humanism and long conversations. I’m certain I couldn’t do life without talking my heart out. I want this blog to feel like you’re talking to me when you want to or when you too feel like you need to talk to someone. The Weeknd said his songs are supposed to meet you in a dark place and be with you as you walk out, I want my blog to do the same. But with extra sunlight and loving energy.

  • See.

    Imagine you could go back in time and give yourself the ability to see yourself then as you see her from ‘now’. This is kind of what I’ve been mentally doing today. I found some photos of me from years ago. I remember how I felt in each of them. How I perceived myself. I… Read more

  • Fear.

    I have a to-do list, I have a plan. I know what to do and I trust my vision and how I plan to make it reality. But instead of going ahead with full charge, I’m staring at the screen. Sitting and staring at nothing. Zoned out, unable to move forward. What is this? Fear.… Read more

  • Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

    I’m here wondering how I went from a daily commitment to writing, to not having posted in days. Did I stray of the writing path? Or did I lose focus? Did I lack the necessary discipline? No. The truest and most honest answer I give to myself is no. How do I know? Because stepping… Read more

  • Why do we lose ourselves

    What has me occupied today is how easy it is to lose yourself. One wrong person in your life, usually as your boyfriend or just a friend. Or you get caught up with the wrong crowd. It can also be a job or a particular period in a job that’s otherwise ok. A prolonged illness,… Read more

  • Ego is the Enemy: the Return of Hard Work

    I started reading Ego is the Enemy yesterday. It’s a book that takes you back to good old hard work. If you want something, you have to work for it. As someone who grew up playing sports competitively and lived by Mamba mentality, this is no news. But in the past years, I too have… Read more

  • ‘That Girl’ is Stoicism, but pretty

    As I’m learning about stoicism, I’m having sort of a revelation about the ‘that girl’ trend. I found out about it over Instagram and then YouTube, but I understand it began on TikTok. I immediately liked the aesthetic and it just felt so familiar. Early mornings, home workouts, the gym, walks, healthy eating, being productive,… Read more